"Serving is Different from Helping and Fixing" Blog

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"Serving is Different From Helping and Fixing" 

I LOVED reading this article. The part I especially resonated with was when author Rachel Remen referenced how using words like "helping" invariably establishes a relationship of hierarchy and of dominance instead of a relationship grounded in a mutual exchange of knowledge and information. She made a similar parallel with the use of the word "fixing" where she mentions that using such a word implies that the person being helped was in some way "broken" prior to receiving the help. 

In my personal experience, serving others has been a learning experience on both ends. I have been able to grow as a person from exchanging stories with people who have different backgrounds and it has broadened my sense of social responsibility to hear and witness what other people are experiencing. 

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